The Alpha Female is a strong, majestic female.
She can often be intimidating to those around
her and isn’t afraid to ask for what she wants.
She’s killing it in her career and has a solid
group of friends to rely on.
There’s nothing quite as brilliant as a woman
with confidence and ambition. She isn’t scared to
put people in their place should they do her
dirty, nor is she willing to put up with anyone
else. She simply doesn’t have the time.
A strong Alpha Woman needs a man who’s her
equal, her partner, her greatest supporter. By
definition, you’d think that she should want an
Alpha Male, but he can provide only passion, not
steadiness. She also doesn’t get along with Beta
Males because they’re too weak to keep her or
pique her interest.
So, who’s right for the mighty Alpha Female?
What kind of man can keep her grounded while
still challenging her to grow and be the best she
can?
May I introduce Type Z: a man who’s equal
parts solid and charismatic. He’s her rock, her
foundation. He’s not intimidated by her
successes nor would he allow her to walk all
over him. He’s true to himself and true to her.
An Alpha Woman knows what she needs to have
a sturdy partnership with a man who’ll be her
ally, her confidant and her best friend.
These are 18 qualities every Alpha Female
should look for in a boyfriend:
1. He’s someone who can tease you and also be
teased.
He’d never be malicious or say something to
hurt your feelings, but he can give a joke just as
well as you can.
You know each other well enough to know when
you’ve crossed the line, but your shared love of
sarcasm and your knowledge of each other’s
weak spots make teasing fun — never
threatening.
2. He challenges you.
He’s as strong as you are, but more subdued.
He’ll push you to be the best you can be and
challenge every decision you make — but you’ll
love him for it.
Life with him is always exciting and never
ceases to surprise you.
3. He doesn’t get jealous.
He’s confident enough to know that the mild
flirtations you have at a cocktail party and your
unyielding friendship with your work husband
are never a threat to your relationship.
He knows you’re his and never feels the need to
question you because your relationship was built
on a foundation of trust.
4. He isn’t waiting on you, he has his own plans.
He has his own life and respects that you have
yours. He’s never going to give you a hard time
about wanting to hit the club with your girls.
Instead, he encourages you to spend time with
them whenever you want to because he knows
whom you’re coming home to.
5. He doesn’t air your dirty laundry.
He has your full trust, and you can tell each
other anything. You’re not afraid your
embarrassing stories are going to come back to
you when you meet his family or when you meet
his friends for drinks.
What’s said between the two of you stays
between the two of you. Well, except for your
BFF; she knows everything from what he’s got
going on downstairs to his latest promotion at
work.
6. He knows how to deal with your bad moods.
He’s a source of comfort for you. You feel at
ease with him. When you’re angry, he somehow
knows how to deal with you with more grace
than anyone else.
Depending on how you’re feeling, angsty and
emotional or overwhelmed and exhausted, he
lets you have your space and knows when to
hold you in his arms.
7. When he apologizes, he really means it.
If he’s done something wrong, he’ll always be
man enough to admit it and tell you he’s sorry.
He’s not arrogant or pigheaded — he won’t do
something wrong and turn the tables on you,
and he won’t hurt your feelings and make you
feel stupid for being upset.
He’s a man, not a boy — and a man always
knows when he needs to apologize.
8. He’s moving at the same speed you are.
Whether in his current career or his lofty life
goals, he always seems to be moving at the same
speed you are. He knows what he wants and
respects what you want. He’s never pushy or
demoralizing — just steadily moving from one
goal to the next with a very bright future in
sight.
9. He doesn’t belittle you, but he doesn’t put you
on pedestal either.
He’s slow and steady, but never a doormat. He
doesn’t idolize you but doesn’t make you feel
small. He treats you like the fierce woman you
are. He also likes to spoil you, but would never
give you everything you want.
He’ll always keep you guessing. He’s your
partner, not your provider. He’s there because
he wants you, not because he needs you.
10. He is someone who teaches, but never
lectures.
The best partnerships are the ones in which both
people can learn from each other. He’s a well of
knowledge and loves to provide you with new
information and insights on things he’s
passionate about.
You learn from him in many ways, but you
never feel like he’s pushing you or judging you.
You both teach other lessons that make you
better people and better citizens of the world.
11. He makes you laugh.
If you can make a woman laugh, you can
make her do anything. -Marilyn Monroe
If he doesn’t make you laugh, you’ll soon grow
tired of him. Laughter is one of the most
important qualities in a partner. Your shared
love of sarcasm and his sharp wit complement
each other perfectly.
12. He’ll call you out when you need to be called
out.
He’ll never fail to tell you how it is. He’s not
scared to hurt your feelings, and he doesn’t
tiptoe around you, either. If you’re acting like a
raging like an irresponsible girl or are completely talking out of sense , you can bet he’ll call you out
on it.
He doesn’t let you get away with it
not because he doesn’t care about you, but
because he doesn’t want to be jerked around by
those Alpha Female ways.
13. He wants to be the wind beneath your wings.
He’s a stoic man: strong, independent and sure
of himself. He prefers to let you lead, but he’s
always there to fully support you. He has no
problem being the background; he’s there to be
your strongest supporter and your steadfast
foundation. He loves that you’re popular because
you’re a person he’s very proud of.
14. He isn’t the life of the party, but is always
there if you need to be carried home.
He lets you be the social butterfly you naturally
are. He doesn’t mind your vibrancy or doesn’t
feel intimidated by your fiery, dynamic
personality; instead, he embraces it. He’s also a
protector.
He’ll pour you another drink, but take it away
when you’ve had too much. He always takes
care of you.
15. His opinions aren’t irrational, they’re backed
up.
He reads a whole lot of books and stays
informed on current events so he can have well-
rounded opinions with factual bases. Being
educated and sound in his understanding of the
world around him is very important to him.
16. He knows when to drop it and when to
address it.
He’ll stand his ground when he knows he is
right. Though he’ll argue with you, he’s not
unwilling to concede if it means ending a fight.
You’re strong-willed, and he knows when a
difference in opinion or a questionable action is
worth discussing or whether it’s better left
alone.
17. He has dreams as big as yours.
He’s as career-focused as you are. You both
genuinely care about each other’s endeavors. He
doesn’t sit back and watch you achieve your
dreams because he has passions and goals of his
own. You two are a true power couple.
18. He’s a great listener, but also expects to be
heard.
He knows when to talk and he knows when to
keep his mouth shut. He quietly and patiently
listens to everything you have to say, but he
expects you to do the same for him.
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