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There was a day when two people could be in a relationship
and everything was kept between the two, but now we live
in a world where relationship statuses, issues within
relationships and intimate moments are shared in every
waking detail on social media.
Keeping a healthy line of communication is one of the
most important elements of a successful relationship, and
sometimes information shared through Facebook, Twitter
or Instagram can scramble lines of communication causing
confusion and arguments.
If you are in a relationship where you and your partner keep
tabs on each other through social media, here are a few
tips on how to maintain a digitally social image without
damaging your relationship.
Establish open communication with your partner.
It’s very easy to find yourself lurking through your partner’s
social media pages during a break from work or at night
before drifting off to sleep to see exactly what he/she is
doing on the world wide web, but this type of searching
should never be your sole line of communication with your
partner.
When you are with your partner in the physical, or when
you are having a phone conversation with him/her, this is
the time to ask the right questions and to establish a line
of clear and open communication.
You shouldn’t have to log on to Facebook to hear that your
partner hated the chicken dinner you made last night, or to
discover that your partner wants out of the relationship.
Before publishing private thoughts about your relationship
with the public, make sure that you are communicating
directly with your partner to avoid arguments and
frustrations later on. This should be a rule of thumb: If I
haven’t spoken directly to my partner about it, then it
shouldn’t be posted online.
Establish what should be disclosed via social media.
Everything from baby births, to engagements and even
relationship-threatening arguments are documented on
social media as if writing in a journal. If social media is
going to be a place where you both decide to document
your relationship’s journey, have a conversation about what
should and should not be disclosed to the world online.
It is important to come to a compromising agreement with
your partner about this type of communication to avoid
mixed signals.
Don’t jump to conclusions.
During your comb through of your partner’s page, you may
discover some things that you were never aware of, and
naturally you may begin to jump to conclusions or assume
things based upon the evidence in front of you.
Instead of flying off the handle at something that may not
be in line with what you’ve discussed previously, bring your
concerns to your partner calmly and talk about what you
observed on your partner’s page. You may find out that
your assumptions where far off from the actual truth.
